Who Put The Marks On Your Yardstick

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Remember if you go back to the issues you missed and take each section and paste it into a document you will end up with a teaching on that subject.  For instance, start a document on Using Sacred Space and each time copy and paste what is here into the document.  After you add all of them you will have a teaching on Using Sacred Space.  If you missed any of these go to the link above and you can see the missed issues.

Thought for the Day

You will never measure up on someone else’s yardstick.

You need to take the teachings that you have received in your life and use them to mark your yardstick.   It does not matter if they came from a parent, grandparent or elder.  If they are good teachings about how to live you take those and use them to put the mark your yardstick.,   You measure your life by that, not by others ideas of what your life should be.  That is why at the beginning of the month I said that you needed to write down what you believe.  If you do not know what you believe how will you know what is right or wrong?    How will you know what you need to change in your life?  It is important to know what you believe and to live by it.

Using Sacred Space

Each time you hold the smudging dish or your stone up you say something like, “Spirit of the East I am grateful for _____________”.  You do that to each direction, Mother Earth, Creator and Ancestors.  It is important you be very specific about what you are grateful for.  Not just a simple thank you.  Mention what you are grateful for, no matter how small or large it is.  If you do that then you whole attitude will change as you realize how much you have to be grateful for.
One thing I recommend is that any time you give gratitude that you remember to be thankful for the breath which you are breathing.  Many of your friends and family no longer breathe the breath of life.  Be thankful for the breath of life it is a great gift.

Now that, you have smudged, stated your intentions and expressed your gratitude it is time to sit quietly and listen.  It is also time to speak to Creator, and the ones that help Creator, about anything that you need to.


Applied externally it is a wonderful medicine.  An ointment made with oil or fat using the leaves works wonders on rheumatism when applied as a rub.   You place the leaves in lard or oil after crushing the leaves in a mortar.  Put them in the top of a double boiler until the crushed leaves are blended in.  It usually takes about an hour for that to happen.  Then allow it to cool some and place it on a cloth that is applied to the affected area.  It also helps with Arthritis.

This same poultice can be used on swollen hands and feet with good results.  Personally I make mine with Olive Oil.  This oil smells wonderful when you rub it on, and it also helps the swelling and pain.


When you sleep at night it is wonderful to place under your pillow, but be ready for some very vivid dreams.  People who put a piece of Labradorite under their pillow at night say that their dreams seem to be realer.  That not only are their dreams clearer, but they are better able to remember them the next day.

I know that it increases your spiritual connection and mental abilities along with increasing your ability to sense what is going on around you.  It is a definite strong connection to spiritual beings and the higher power that surrounds you.

Labradorite by increasing our spiritual energy and connection also protects us from things around us sapping our energy.  It helps us understand what has been sapping our energy and when it does that we are able to let go of things that affect us without us know they do.

The Book Wind is my Mother
For those of you that are interested in Clans be sure that you read pages 26, 27, 28 as it tells you how the Creek nation got there clans.  Also on page 38 there is a very good teaching about receiving and giving.  Take time to read it and take it into your heart.

We will talk tomorrow.

About Fire Bear

I am a professional storyteller, Native American Flute Player, herbalist and a seeker of knowledge and sharer of what I have learned. My wife and I run Acorn Haven Spiritual Center in Kentucky. I have been a Rodeo Clown, Deputy Sheriff, Newspaper Editor, Business Owner, Truck Driver, Part-time College Professor, spiritual counselor, teacher, alternative healer and much more. My wife and I have been helping people with addictions for over 20 years. We help by helping them find the spiritual tools they need to make changes in their lives. I believe this gives me the ability to write about diverse subjects. My writing is always sprinkled with a unique point of view and humor.
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One Response to Who Put The Marks On Your Yardstick

  1. Annie Marie Peters says:

    Very inspirational! I’ve been guilty of measuring myself by someone else’s yardstick. Sometimes it’s just easier to look outward rather than in. I’m definitely going to be keeping this in mind next time I start to judge myself. Thank you again, Fire Bear, for your wisdom!

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